Do you enjoy what you do?
Absolutely! My intention is always to be professional and responsible, which necessitates some work. That being said, I'm continually astounded how much I enjoy my life and this career. I meet fascinating people, create memories and am fortunate to live a balanced lifestyle which allows me to also pursue other interests.
Why do you call yourself a travel and dining companion?
The title is intended to express what makes me a little different and what I believe sets me apart as a companion.
Quality time and connecting with my clientele is truly rewarding and energizing to me. It sounds luxurious to collect passport stamps or Michelin stars but multi-day durations or long dinners isn't for everyone professionally. I suppose I'll use the adage of, 'who would you want to get stuck in an elevator with'. I would like to think that I'm pretty easy-going, love to learn and can roll with the punches while sincerely wanting to keep the chemistry goin'.
My dance card consists mostly of long-term clientele. It puts a big smile on my face to celebrate another multi-year 'anniversary' as proof of the friendships I've been fortunate to enjoy.
Are your photos accurate?
Absolutely. In truth, I am told that my photos do not do me justice. I take pride in my physique and appearance.
How can I be sure that my information is safe with you?
From your perspective, you have worked very hard for what you have and likely have your own concerns about discretion. Life has given you an opportunity to indulge in the company of a lovely woman ~ but why does it have to feel so invasive?
I empathize. I really do. However, my verification methods have been the same years. There is zero benefit to using your information for personal gain or emotionally. I take pride maintaining a respectable reputation.
While it wouldn't be wise to disclose details, information security is something I take very seriously and continually review to make sure everyone is as safe as possible.
Can you please explain your logic for verification?
There are two primary ways to be verified.
1.) Provide the contact information of 3-5 credible ladies who would be happy to sing your praises. If you have built a solid reputation for treating others with respect, I would be happy to accept their glowing recommendations. Even 1 or 2 ladies can make a big difference in using my discretion when requesting further information re: the second option.
2.) Workplace and ID verification is a secondary method. A copy of your driver's license will certainly help. I also will want additional information regarding your employment and some way of proving that the information really is coming from who you say you are.
In all instances, I will check your ID upon meeting.
How much notice do you require for a date?
I do not accept invitations from new clientele who are requesting a date within 24 hours. 72 hours is reasonable. One week is ideal. And I can plan my calendar up to 60 days in advance. I love a man with a plan!
Invitations requesting exclusive travel or that are 6 hours or more will need to supply a 50% non-refundable deposit.
How long does it take for you to respond to emails? I filled out your form and/or sent an email.
Those who supply all verification information and propose a clear invitation with a day, time, location, and duration will get priority. Remember to check my Calendar to make sure we are in the same city at the same time.
I answer the influx of emails as best as I can. Clear communication really does help me and is sincerely appreciated. And, yes, sometimes I take a personal day away from emails but will always get back to you as soon as possible.
Will you meet me 'off the clock' for coffee or a drink?
No. It would be disrespectful to other clients who pay for my time and those who understand that companionship is my profession.
Can you blame me if I want to know who you really are?
Please, please don't. Historical efforts to find out my real name, email me, find me on social media, etc. simply have made me feel sad and will surely ruin the tenor of our relationship. Any information shared between us during our time together should be just that ~ between us. Your secrets are safe with me and any information shared stays within the confines of our date.
Do you accept invitations from couples?
I love visiting with couples! It's a treat to be invited into the intimacy of man and woman who are trying to explore fantasies and am flattered to be included.
Verification for both parties is required. I also want to make sure I'm not walking into a 'surprise!' type of situation and that the lady is fully aware that I'm present in a supportive capacity.
Can you invite another professional lady to our date?
Currently, I choose to lay low and wish to remain private ~ so no duos for me. They can be fun though and I may reconsider.
What is your cancellation policy?
Traveling ~ I require 48+ hours notice without a 25% penalty payable immediately.
Colorado ~ I require 24+ hours notice with a 25% penalty payable immediately.
Anything less than 72hrs notice will get a slap on the wrist and require a 50% deposit for future bookings.
In the rare event that I must cancel and accepted a deposit, please know that the entire amount will be refunded, usually within 24 hours or less.
How will you be dressed? Can I make an outfit request?
My attire tends to consist of classy pieces ~ silk blouses, form-fitting yet professional dresses, heels (almost always), tasteful jewelry and french lace underneath.
I will always dress for the occasion. It is better to turn heads than raise eyebrows.
Outfit requests are always noted and I'll try my best. If you have something very specific in mind, I may suggest that the attire be provided instead of expected. I will never wear something that makes me feel uncomfortable.
What is your favorite refreshment and/or dining preferences?
Ooooooo.... as a foodie I love this question.
I love wine in all its glory and nuances. A dry white wine (sauvignon blanc or sancerre) or light tanic red (pinot noir or nebbiolo) is likely preferred but I'm easily entertained discussing something you're passionate about too.
Good food is good food. I can be as easily satiated at hole in the wall as I can at a Michelin starred restaurant. Steak. Sushi. Italian. I love it all.
I lost track of time and want to extend our time together. What should I do?
Einstein said it best, "touch a hot stove for a minute and it will feel like two hours, sit with a pretty woman for two hours and it will feel like a minute".
Please simply acknowledge your wish for me to stay longer. If I am available, please provide the additional amount in cash immediately.
The golden rule applies as well. Once our time is up, please allow me to gracefully exit with happiness for the time we shared.
Do you accept tips or gifts?
Sweet surprises are always thoughtful and fun, but certainly not required. If you would like suggestions, below is my wishlist for your convenience.
Thank you in advance! xo